Moregasm: Babeland’s Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex (Review)

I was given the wonderful opportunity to review the newest book from the Babeland founder’s Claire Cavanah and Rachel Venning, “Moregasm : Babeland’s Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex”

“Moregasm” covers all aspects of sex, educating you on more than just the average sex education book. It covers everything from masturbation, bondage, anal sex, and everything else in between. Even if you thought you knew enough about sex, EVERYONE should read this book. It is full of tips and tricks, as well as answers to lots of common issues and questions.

I was really pleased to see such a diverse selection of images and illustrations. “Moregasm”goes over more than just traditional heterosexual sex, it includes advice for people and couples of all orientations.

Reading “Moregasm” has me interested in trying a few new things that I was intimated by before. I really have learned some new things, and feel more knowledgeable about certain aspects of sex that I only thought I was an expert in.

“Moregasm” is a book that everyone should have on their bookshelf, or coffee table. I very highly recommend it, and I just cannot say enough good things about it.

Lelo Ella Review

I won an affiliate contest from Babeland awhile back, and I am finally able to post my opinion and review of it.

The Ella dildo is the first Lelo product that I’ve had the pleasure of reviewing.

Like all of the other Lelo products, Ella is very sleek and extremely well made. She is made of pure silicone which is seamless and very smooth. My Ella arrived in an elegant black box, and a satin draw string bag to store her in.

The Ella is a double ended dildo, one end features a G-Spot “nook”. While using this end, it easily hit just the right spot. I was really surprised that it took very little effort to get me going. The G-spot nook definitely hit where it was designed to. The contour of the dildo was perfect for me, I was able to use it without being in an uncomfortable position. The nook end also works well for some non vibrating clit stimulation.

The other more “traditional” end isn’t quite traditional. It has more of a slightly pointed end, rather than a bulbous head that you see in many other dildos. The point of this end is wonderful for stimulating specific areas such as your perineum.

The Ella cleans up easily with some soap and water, but she may also be cleaned in the dishwasher (no soap), boiled, or with a 10% bleach solution.

Ella’s largest diameter is 1 ¼ inches and is 7 inches long with 5 inches invertible. You can use water based lubricant with her.

I really really enjoy my Ella, and she will always have a place on my nightstand.

E[lust] #5

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The Condom Question. Confession #397 – Luckily, this time I had my wits about me enough to reply with a categorical, Yes a condom is absolutely necessary, darlin, but history has proven that, while I’m naked and horny, I can offer no more justification as to why such protection is paramount.

No more… – “I’m so sorry, I can’t…”. Words, words, so many words… reasons and reasoning and things and stuff and none of it made sense, and through all of it, disbelief, dread, a sickness of heart… I couldn’t quite believe what I was hearing.

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Sex as a Panacea – As I begged “faster” “harder” “more!” I felt my orgasm come on, a mere minute or two after we began with this combination. A thunderous orgasm overtook me as he kept up with the dildo and I with the Climax for the first big wave.

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Bad Girl – I take off my coat and stand proudly before her in my black lace corset, suspenders, stockings and heels. She looks me up and down and smiles at me when she catches my stare. Desire is already zinging through my body.

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From Helper To Survivor
Good girl, bad girl…
Girlie Toys
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Illicit Encounters
Insecurity, You can Kiss My Ass
Nothing is perfect, which is why there is communication
Regaining my Femme
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All Rise For the Queen
Centre of Attention
Crying Uncle
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Mind Games and Number Games
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Pleasurists #60

by yana.

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Editor’s Pick

• Liberator Axis Hitachi by Carnivalesq

Epiphora commented that “the Hitachi takes up like entire vulva,” and therefore wanted to know “if I have to like buttsex to have it work for partner play.” I argue that the Hitachi does not take up the whole vulva, but recognize that I may, in fact, be super human.

Note: Carnivalesq’s Illustrated Axis Hitachi Positioning Guide is just awesome and you should read it. ‘Nuff said.

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On to the reviews…

Vibrators

• Je Joue G-Ki by Dangerous Lilly
• LELO Mia by Laurel
• Doc Johnson Velvet Touch by Mistress Kay
• Pure Mini by LikeSunshineDust
• Bondage Duckie by Mistress Kay
• Bswish Bcute by Laurel
• OhMiBod Freestyle by Mistress Kay
• Kitty Play by Laurel
• Emotional Bliss’ Chandra by Mystyfi

Dildos

• Randy by Epiphora
• LELO Ella by Ginger Leigh
• Bad Dragon Ridgeback and Tentacle by Carnivalesq
• Outlaw by Sammi
• Alumina Revolve by Undressed Reviews
• Krystal Rabbit by Darling Dove
• Heart’s Desire by Sammi
• Cyberglass Four-Way G by Melen’s Rayne
• Angelic Dreams by Valyn
• Hans’ Hardwood Dildo by Carnivalesq

Anal Toys

• Tantus Ryder by Melen’s Rayne
• Bootie by Lithaewyn
• Xhale Glass Baller by Valyn

Toys for Cocks

• TitanMen Stretch-to-Fit Cock Ring by Dani Darling
• Succu Dry by Tales from the Porn Store
• Bunny Enhancer by Dani Darling

Lube, Massage Oil, Bath Stuff, & etc.

• Chocolate Body Fondue by Laurel
• Sliquid Organics Silk by True Pleasures

BDSM/Fetish

• Single Strans Beaded Clamps by Shanna Germain
• Behind the Back Restraint by Nadia West
• Leather Impressions “Love” Paddle by Mistress Kay
• Under the Bed Restraint System by Vita and Zinaida on Undressed Reviews

Adult Books/Games

• Sexuations Board Game by Mistress Kay
• 1,001 Ways to Be Romantic by Mistress Kay
• Lou Paget’s “Orgasms” by Mistress Kay

Adult Movies/Porn

• Roulette by Undressed Reviews
• Sunny’s Slumber Party by The Porn Librarian
• Nina Hartley’s Guide To Simultaneous Orgasms by FrzKey
• Throat: A Cautionary Tale by J.D. Bauchery
• Taboo Decadence by The Porn Librarian
• Heaven by FrzKey

Sex Furniture

• Liberator Wing by Amber from Scarlet’s Letter
• Liberator Scoop/Wedge Combo by Epiphora

Storage

• FYN Adult Toy Box by Nadia West

Lingerie

• Flirty Valentine Set by Lithaewyn

Miscellaneous

• Peni-Cake Pan by Mistress Kay
• Fun Factory Smartballs Teneo Uno and Duo by Melen’s Rayne
• Fun Factory Smartballs Teneo Duo by HotMoviesforHer Sex Toy Crew
• Smartballs Teneo Uno and Duo by Carnivalesq

Pink Basic Essentials Bunny Enhancer Review

Basic Essentials Bunny Enhancer Cock Ring by Cal Exotics

This is a basic “rabbit style” cock ring. I was very interested to try it out. I commonly use a vibe during sex, but a cock ring that vibrates sounds like an awesome idea.

To use this, he attempted to put it over his cock and balls, but fit more comfortably with it on his cock only. Once it was on and secure at the base of his cock, he turned it on. I immediately touched him and I could feel the vibrations all through his shaft.

Material / Texture

The Basic Essentials Bunny Enhancer has a jelly like texture, and it is made of TPR. It is really stretchy, I could easily fit this over a soda can. The cock ring has several holes in various places where you can put the bullet vibrator.

It had a slight plastic smell, but like many toys that disappeared after washing it

Shape / Design / Size / Fit

I had high hopes for this ring, but the rabbit just did not hit my clit properly. I had to hold it in place, and that kind of defeats the purpose.
However the ring did fit my lover well, and couldn’t of been simpler to put on or take off. This ring is stretchy enough to not require any lubricant.

Functions / Performance / Controls

The Basic Essentials Bunny Enhancer Cock Ring comes with a tiny bullet vibe. It took me a minute to find the on switch, it is a tiny sliding switch on the side. I would of preferred a button, it is rather difficult to slide the switch over to power it on.
The vibrator only has one speed, and it is a high pitched vibration.

Packaging

The The Basic Essentials Bunny Enhancer is packaged in a basic plastic clam shell. Batteries were included along with spare set.

Pros

easy to put on and take off, decent vibrations, I like that it came with extra batteries

Cons

the vibe switch was hard to turn on, it didn’t hit my clit just right

Summary

This ring might work for others, as I have a hard time finding toys that hit my clit just right. The vibrations were decent for such a small vibrator. The material is really stretchy and will accommodate men of any size.

Pleasurists #59

Butterfly by Yin.Shen

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Editor’s Pick

• Pink by EffinSara

Pink Lube is a silicone-based lube and contains only five ingredients: Dimethicone, Vitamin E, Aloe Vera, Dimethiconol, and Cyclomethicone. Vitamin E and aloe vera are generally soothing and nurturing for skin, and the other three are silicone polymers, which have a number of properties that make them ideal lubricants. Their molecules are too big to pass between the top layer of cells in your skin, much less penetrate cell membranes, so once you put them on they won’t be going anywhere. No absorption or anything. This makes silicone-based lubes longer lasting than their water-based counterparts

Note: I get a special tingle when people explain ingredients of lube, I’m not sure why. Maybe because it doesn’t always happen, or maybe because science gives me a happy. Either way, I like it. Also, while I do love snark, there is something to be said for negative reviews which showcase the fact that personal preference ties in to the dislike of a product rather than negativity toward the product itself. On both cases, this review is a winner.

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On to the reviews…

Vibrators

• LELO Mona by Amber from Scarlet’s Letter
• Cal Exotics iTap G Vibe by Laurel
• Siena Symphony by Sammi
• Eros and Isis Leo by Red
• Touche Ice Small by Laurel
• X-Commander by Red
• LELO Ina by Joan Price
• Treeze Realistic by Sammi
• Freestyle by Carrie Ann
• Hot Nights by Kristi
• Xtreme Pack Mini by Carrie Ann
• Onye Fleur by Dani Darling
• Intimacy Massager by HotMoviesForHer Sex Toy Crew
• Divine Vibe by Sex Kitten

Anal Toys

• Triple Crown Vibrating Beads by Undressed Reviews
• Tantus Ripple Small by Saraid

Toys for Cocks

• LELO Bo by EffinSara
• Double Diver Cockring by True Pleasures

Lube, Massage Oil, Bath Stuff, & etc.

• Love Balm Organic Lubricant by Laurel
• Pink Water by HotMoviesForHer Sex Toy Crew
• Pink! by Carrie Ann
• Coochy Protection by HotMoviesForHer Sex Toy Crew

BDSM/Fetish

• Pleasure Tape by Sammi
• Crave Wrist Restraints by EffinSara
• Spartacus Lavish Nipple Clamps by Lady Evyl</a

Adult Books

• Sex with the Lights On by Essin’ Em

Adult Movies/Porn

• Merry XXX-Mas by The Porn Librarian
• The Bitch that Stole Christmas by FrzKey
• Santa’s Revenge by J.D. Bauchery
• In the Christmas Spirit by The Porn Librarian
• Fornicasian by The Porn Librarian
• Speakeasy by FrzKey
• Midori’s Expert Guide To Sensual Bondage by J.D. Bauchery
• PornoMation 3 – Dreamspells by FrzKey
• Cindy’s Correction by FrzKey
• One Night Stand by Zooey Rexie

Lingerie

• Brocade Corset by Muffyspingulove

Miscellaneous

• Smartballs Teneo Uno by HotMoviesForHer Sex Toy Crew
• 365 Reasons to have Sex – 2010 Calendar by Undressed Reviews
• Thigh Harness by Garnet Joyce
• Lunapads Lunapanties by Domina Doll

My First Cock Ring

This was the first cock ring that we’ve used. It seemed simple enough to not be intimidating.
We experimented with using it just around his shaft, and then around his balls and shaft. We learned that the around both his shaft and balls gave better results. The ring made him harder, and made his erection last longer.
I had to stop the fun, because I got a cramp in my leg, and usually he softens some whenever that happens, but not thing time. He was still as hard as he was when we started.

Material / Texture

The ring had a slight plastic smell upon opening the package. But after washing it before it’s initial use, the smell was gone.
The TitanMen Stretch-to-Fit Cock ring appears small, but it is super stretchy and smooth. It has a slight rubbery texture.

Shape / Design / Size / Fit

This ring’s design is super simple, it is a nice basic cock ring. Lubricant makes this ring so much easier to put on and to take off. My lover said it was a little strange feeling to wear it at first, but it was comfortable after he was used to the feeling of the pressure.
Because of its super stretchy material, it will fit many differently sized men.

Cleaning

The TPR material that the TitanMen Stretch-to-Fit Cock ring is made of, cannot be sterilized. But you can clean it easily with some antibacterial soap and water.

Pros The rings simplicity, its super stretchiness

ConsPerhaps adding some simple instructions for the ones that are new to cock rings

Summary
I am really happy with the TitanMen Stretch-to-Fit Cock ring, it is really simple to use for a beginner or a novice. The material has the perfect elasticity to fit men of all sizes.

Onye Fleur Review

I was really excited to be able to try out and review the Onye Fleur by Big Tease Toys, that was sent to me from Babeland.

This vibrator is really a piece of art, it is beautiful. The grip has swirly designs and the rest is a sleek slightly metallic deep red. It is very smooth and is very aesthetically pleasing.

The Onye Fleur is available in red and purple, I received it in red. The Onye Fleur is 4 1/2 inches long and has a diameter of 1 1/2 inches. It may be inserted, but it is designed to be a clitoral toy.  I really like the size of this vibrator, it has just enough length where you can easily grip it, yet it is small enough to be stored discreetly. It also features a rubber band towards the back of the shaft that makes it even easier to hold on to.

The Onye Fleur has a single button control, with 3 speeds. Now I know that it seems that I keep reviewing stronger and stronger vibes, and I do. lol. This baby is TOO STRONG for me. The medium speed is as powerful as some of my other toys highest speeds. When I was using it, I know I could come on the medium speed very easily. But I wanted to try the highest speed. I came almost imediately after changing the speed, but it was soo powerful. The muscles in my thighs, calves and ass all tightened up so tight that it ruined the orgasm. I did come, but it was put to a end very quickly.

The next morning, I tried it again, this time not bothering with highest speed. I really enjoyed myself this time.

Now this toy is not perfect, I do have a few issues. First, the second time I went to use it, it didn’t want to turn on right away. I kept pressing the button and it came on after a few tries. I hope it isn’t a sign of future trouble with it. I will update this post to report any more issues with turning it on in the future. Second, the metallic finish scratches very easily. You should be very, very careful with it, and you shouldn’t get any scratches. I accidentally dropped mine and now its a little scratched.

Other than those two issues, I thoroughly enjoyed the Onye Fleur.

Last Night

We stumbled into the bedroom, both very tired and worn out from the whole eventful night. He stripped down and got into the bed, while I undressed and then removed my jewelry and makeup. After getting comfortable and ready to go to sleep, I joined him in the warm sea of blankets and pillows. He immediately cuddled up and began kissing me. The long lingering kisses that mean more than “goodnight.” I was tired, but became aroused immediately. It had been some time since we had been able to fool around.

After a few moments of passionate kissing, he moved to my breasts. He begins to lustfully suck and tease my nipples. He slowly slipped his hand between my thighs, softly caressing me. I was wearing only panties, and the barrier that they created was pure torture. I wanted to feel everything he was doing to me. He finally moved my panties to the side and began circling my clit with his fingertips. I felt immediate waves of pleasure course though my entire body. How can such a simple touch of his fingers feel so amazing? Soon he began to dip his fingers inside of me, slowly then quickly building up his pace. I was in a completely euphoric state. I started to come, I was so incredibly horny and was enjoying every movement that he made. I wanted to scream, but had to be quiet. All I could do was grab a pillow to smother my moans.

I sure do hope we get some more time to ourselves very soon.

New Year’s Resolution

I realize that I am such a slacker when it comes to blogging. I feel bad about it, this blog isn’t anywhere near what I had planned it to be.

I am making a new year’s resolution to write more on here.

Wish me luck that I will actually have more sex to write about 😀