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E[lust] #2

December 2, 2009 Leave a comment

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♦ This Week’s Top Three Posts ♦

The Heart of Darkness “I swear that man can sense my fear like a hound scenting a rabbit, and just like the hound, his blood rises to it.”

Forever…“Forever is a beautiful idea, a wonderful goal, but it’s not a magic spell.

His First Fuck “He stood there, obviously nervous, obviously aroused by what he had been witness to seconds earlier.”

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I Dare You “Aided by our clutches of printed papers, me hiding my nipples that could cut glass and him hiding the hard bulge in his dress pants, we scurried back to our cubes where the messages flew back and forth.”

♦ Featured Post

Who am I?“I’ve been through a lot of shit in my life and couldn’t fit it all on one piece of poster board.”

See also: Pleasurists #55 for all your sex toy review needs


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♦ Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships ♦

First. Confession #380

In Defense of Squirting

Gender, Buck Angel, and Me

G Spot Orgasms: It’s all about the clitoris

Spitroast

They May be Bi, But They’re Still Boys

Why I Sometimes Fake Orgasms

Wonderland: The British in Bed

♦ Kink & Fetish ♦

The Workout (fiction)I Am Not Clark KentCaning

Lips Parted

Curve

She brought her own toys

Rope Bondage: Hemp vs. Mfp

Phew! Another Hole

Hearts

My virginity and how I lost it..

Gift

Spicing it up: Bondage Materials

♦ Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor ♦

20 Questions with Cyd

This Ain’t No Disney

A Thank You Note

Vegas Virgins

Sex and Happiness

♦ Erotic Writing ♦

1 Full Body Massage / 1 Happy Ending

The Slut Chronicles #7 ~ I Said No

To Do List

the date

And Your Hands and Your Lips and Your Tongue Tricks

Oh Fuuuck

I Get Around

Sometimes, Love Hurts

In The Dark

Making Up

Quickie – A Good Girl

What I Want You To Do To Me

Hitachi Fun

Her Curves

Carnal

marks she left

Wicked Wednesday: I Love Watching You Watching Me

Birthday Boy

Fucking & Making Love

Thy Mother and Thy Father: A Vodoun Love Spell

What Just Happened?

Happy Birthday Me

What Cums Around


Pleasurists #52

November 6, 2009 Leave a comment

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Pleasurists is a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #51? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #53? Submit it here before Sunday November 1st at 11:59pm PDT. Please re-post this list on your own blog if listed.
Note: Apologies for being late yet again, I was so hoping not to be this week. In case you don’t follow Pleasursts on twitter I was in the hospital for a few days and sans laptop. Sorry!

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Editor’s Pick

  • Tantus Vamp by Amber from Scarlet’s Letter
  • I love this toy! The color is rather unique to most other realistic dildos. The subtle sparkle of the silicone makes it pretty without being too loud and obnoxious. The ridges and texture of the shaft of the toy feels marvelous, and the slightly curved prominent head of the toy feels fantastic.

    Note: I am endlessly amused by the Tantus Vamp, plus it was just Halloween, and Amber’s great review was too good to pass up as an editor’s pick. I just wish Tantus would make a sparkly red one, I’d be all about it.

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Toys for Cocks

Lube, Massage Oil, Bath Stuff, & etc.

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My Introduction to Bondage

October 1, 2009 8 comments

In my sex life I prefer things a little rough and a little bit kinky. A spontaneous tying up and being a bit more dominate than usual is a nice way to spice things up.

My first experience with bondage was more of a gentle session. He had went shopping earlier that morning to pick up a few items to experiment with. He tied me to his bed, using some crisp white handkerchiefs and securing them to the bed-frame. After making sure I couldn’t get loose, he blindfolded me. I was positioned on my arms and knees, basically face down, ass up.

He began slowly. He was gently teasing me by sensually rubbing my inner thighs and my ass. His touch was so light, it almost tickled. He then began alternating between rubbing and playfully spanking me. He started teasingly touching my clit, and the next thing I knew he was eating me out. I was drunk from all the wonderful sensations, everything he did was so pleasurable.

After coming, I was too sensitive to be able to take anymore and he graciously gave me a short break. Then suddenly I feel something cold and it had a strange texture. It took me a little bit to realize what he was using to taunt and tease my clit with this time. It was a strawberry! After figuring out what it was, I was able to enjoy the teasing more. He then spurt a little bit of whipped cream onto my pussy and greedily licked it all off and began eating me out again. Once he had enough of the teasing and filling me with anticipation, he began to give me what I really wanted. He started penetrating me slightly, but only enough to make me crave more. A few moments of this, and it became torturous. He was going to make me beg for it. So I did, and it didn’t take much. He began fucking me slowly, but going very deep. It was driving me crazy, with being tied up and not being able to see what he was doing, my senses were greatly heightened. Every thrust, every smack to my ass, every touch of his hand, was intensified. Soon he was thrusting harder and faster, it wasn’t long after I was exhausted from coming twice so intensely, that he finished.

He had unbound me and allowed me to lay on my back and rest. Once my mind was no longer blurred and I came back to reality, I realized that I was hooked. I knew that I liked to be a “bottom” but was excited to experiment being a “top.” There was and still are tons of things I want to try someday. We’ve only had a few more bondage sessions since then, having roommates and such doesn’t make it easy. But I hope to have many more in the not to far away future.

I have a few plans for the next bondage adventure, I will be a top for this one. I have been scheming up ideas and plan to do it soon. I have a feeling it is going to be a fun and stimulating afternoon. 😉

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Male Chastity Devices

September 2, 2009 12 comments

I was browsing on a sex product site and came across something that caught me eye. It was a plastic, lockable male chastity device. I’ve seen leather versions before, but never gave it much thought. I just kind of figured it was another bondage item that I probably wouldn’t be interested in too much. But for some reason I was interested in it today, I like the idea of being able to “lock up” my lover’s cock and he can only become free when I say so.

Broadly defined, a chastity is any locking appliance (device or belt) that prevents the wearer engaging in sexual intercourse or masturbation.  Chastity originally started for women but today chastity is heavily geared towards males.  A chastity belt “primarily” prevents access to the mans penis, but does not necessarily prevent all orgasms.

With the design of most devices, it is extremely uncomfortable, sometimes painful for a man to obtain an erection, there is simply not enough room for it.  Some men report that they are able to achieve what amounts to an orgasm without ejaculation. Nocturnal erections can be a bit painful at first but soon the man’s body becomes accustomed.

There are some devices that are designed for long term wear, there should be no problem wearing it for days, weeks, months or some accounts say up to 12 or more months (some of these ‘long term’ accounts are probably fictional).

Shortly after discovering the page full of devices and researching it more, I asked my lover, “Would you ever let me put one on you?” To which he replied lovingly, “Fuck you.” I couldn’t help but respond “Only after I decide to remove it”

If you are interested in purchasing your own chastity device, I can’t recommend Extreme Restraints enough .